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Building Intimacy Skills for Deeply Fulfilling Relationships

In a world where most people don’t naturally learn the skills needed for truly connected and emotionally rich relationships, the Somatica® Method emerges as a transformative solution. This innovative approach is rooted in emotional and erotic connection, blending talk-based coaching with hands-on experiential practices. It serves as a unique training ground for developing the relationship and intimacy skills essential for authentic, deeply enriching relationships.


At its heart, the Somatica® Method believes that lasting change comes from real-life experiences, not just theoretical understanding. It supports breaking away from entrenched sexual and relational patterns, steering clients towards genuine self-expression and fulfillment in their intimate lives.


Emphasizing ‘Transformation through Pleasure™’, the Somatica® Method moves away from the idea of growth through difficulty. Instead, it highlights a journey where pleasure, joy, and connection are key to personal growth. This approach is underpinned by the latest neuroscience and offers a distinct coaching model involving active, interactive learning. These experiences are tailored to impart critical intimacy skills in ways that are enjoyable, exciting, and deeply connecting.


The method celebrates the uniqueness of each individual’s journey towards intimacy. It recognizes that emotional and erotic intimacy are skills that can be developed, not merely innate abilities, and it celebrates the distinct beauty and differences in everyone. Through the Somatica® Method, individuals can unlock the potential for relationships that are not only deeply enriching but also lasting.

Core Relating Skills

  • Setting Boundaries Lovingly
  • Obtaining Consent
  • Expressing Your Relationship Needs
  • Balancing Attachment and Individualization
  • Understanding Relating Styles
  • Handling Disappointments 
  • Being Vulnerable
  • Attuning / Showing Empathy
  • Expressing Appreciation
  • Healing from Shame / Deshaming
  • Finding Safety in Your Body / Emotional Regulation
  • Creating Emotional Resilience
  • Identifying Trauma Response / Trigger De-Escalation 
  • Inner Child Dialog 
  • Communicating Emotionally with Others (Imago)
  • Handling Relationship Repair (10 Steps)

Intimacy Skills

  • De-Compartmentalizing Sexuality
  • Sexual and Sensual Embodiment 
  • Adult Attachment (Eye Contact, Physical Nurturing, I Feel Game)
  • Expressing Desires / Handling Rejection 
  • Providing Erotic Touch
  • Relaxing into Receiving Pleasure
  • Feeling Comfortable with Giving Direction
  • Practicing Disinhibition / Animal Game
  • Knowing Your Erotic Blueprint
  • Understanding Arousal / 3 Dimensions of Sex
  • Identifying Your Core Desires
  • Creating / Sharing Your Hottest Sexual Movie
  • Understanding Orgasms (Male, Female) 
  • Addressing Low Sexual Desire or ED
  • Full Body Pleasure Mapping
  • Practicing Safe Kink 
  • Dominance and Submission
  • Navigating Open Relating

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